Each day we wake up to this beautiful view, regardless of whether we see it or not. It is always there. Each day our world is filled with amazing things and we can either choose to see them or we can choose to be ignorant of them. I try everyday to be thankful, to be in gratitude of the wanders of this beautiful earth, and all the other riches I have been blessed with, my children, my freedom, my family, my abilities, my health, and still there is so much to be greatful for.
It has been scientifically proven that when we are in an attitude of gratitude our life is far more positively affected. Things go better and our day is generally more pleasant. So many NLP practitioners, gurus, psychologists etc have vouched on this idea that what we focus on is what we become. It is no wonder quotes like, “we are what we eat”, “you are what you thinketh”, “whether you think you can or you can’t, you are right” are quoted everywhere we look, that is if we look for it.
See the thing is what we pay attention to is usually what we get more of. If we keep focusing on the pain, simple, we get more of it, we focus on more good things, more good things come. Now I’m not trying to simply argue my way into your brain and convince you that the law of attraction is as real as you believe it to be, I am promising you that because you thought about this and questioned it, the answer is right here for you. I’ve had stupid examples come to me to prove this fact, and when I say stupid I mean stupidly impossible, I wouldn’t have believed them unless they happened to me. Should I tell you, of course but I’ll just tell you that if you ¥ou think about a convoy of blue cars repeatedly and leave the thought to nestle in the universes grasp, it will likely be what you see. If you joyfully delight the universe to bring you back your child’s balloon on a very windy day, without any human intervention, then yes this will happen to you. It happened to me. I sometimes get all down in the dumps and wonder about the way the world has come to reveal itself to me and then I see how everything has unfolded is because I have placed it all there, consciously or unconsciously. Maybe I’m a bit weird, maybe I believe in miracles too much, maybe I want too much to trust a God I cannot see, but the funny thing is I do. Without a shadow of a doubt, I really do. My son is a Miracle that I have been blessed with. My life has pretty much fallen into place. I have no real worries and am not desperate in any way. I am just here, grateful and trusting. I am pushing on and believe that God brings certain people into our life for our own good. He sometimes brings cleverer people to us to show us what we can learn, and other times he brings less fortunate people into our lives to help us nurture our compassion. The thing is we get to choose. Day in and day out, how we wish to be. When we focus continuously on this knowing, that we are a creator of our reality and not just a follower of it, as Abraham’s teachings have come to share with us, we can and will create something more beautiful. When we do this daily on a consistent basis, most of the time, it won’t be all of the time at first, because when you’re weighed done by alot of dense frequencies, this is what you are getting, but the tipping point will start to shift when the lighter feeling or frequencies begin to be more dominant in your day to day process. It only takes 17 seconds to be oblivious to the world around you. 17 seconds to focus on something beautiful and build on that momentum. When you try to keep this state going for a few times a day to start with, the good feeling will begin to override the bad feelings, not just once, but over and over again. Isn’t this a wonderful realization? If you’ve been depressed, and tried this time and again without much success, I have no magical potions to offer you, but this, noone, yes not any one person on this planet can change it for you. Try as they may, they cannot. It is you, that have to make the shift, it is you that have to just allow the energy to move through. It is you that has to make the commitment to feel good all of the time, to know that beyond a shadow of a doubt you are the creator of your reality, that what you put in you will get back, that when you are not in sync with the source of who you are, then you will only get more of what you don’t want in life, negativity, depression, hate, contrast, as Abraham calls it. Without this anger and depression and all that is on the other end of the high flying scale, you would not actually see what there is to be, and it is beautiful when you see it. Maybe it’s just a glimpse, maybe it’s just for a short time, whatever it is, in the moment of realization, that you acknowledge that the feeling of wonder came from a part of you that is dying to come out, you will awaken to a world that can be and can continue to be, if you just surrender to the peace within and begin to focus on nurturing that, for as long as you can, be it seconds, minutes hours or days. Get into the practice of allowing the oblivion to overcome you, to allow the good feeling to speak over you and when you are there, creating a positive momentum, you will be able to more easily rise into more emotionally rewarding moments. I had a refreshing moment of clarity yesterday about communication with your children, but which applies to communication with all beings. Abraham said choose your disc and then talk to your children and something inside me just clicked. I’ve studied so many books about children, I’ve had so many parents talk to me about their children and this one piece of advice if incorporated into every conversation I’ve ever had with anyone about their children could have gone a tremendous amount better had I just thought about this. Sometimes we look so hard for a solution when a solution is not available to us from a lower vibration. We need to get into a loving vibration to be able to hear what is being said to us, in order to accept what is always available for us to hear. There is no need to block out what is naturally attempting to speak to us through love and compassion. There is no need for that at all. We simply need to decide to be on this page and make it happen, because as Iyanla VanZant said just the other day in a talk about healing our lives, there is nothing your Holiness cannot do. Nothing. We are all a source of good, tapping into that you will find better clarity into who you are and begin to remember a time that could have been if you only allow yourself to surrender to that Holiness within you. So if you’re going to allow the wind to just take you anywhere, at least make sure it takes you to a good feeling thought, stay there and begin to feel the moment inspire in you the magic of miracles, gently….